Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

simple why do bad things happen?

Sorry I am two days late on I Am Second Mondays.
But I promise to do better.

Last week I made a commitment to start blogging about my group and to be nicer to my roommate.
I was successful at this, to the point that me and my roommate actually went to dinner twice this past week. I left her 3 sticky notes saying that I hope she had an amazing day and that classes went well and fast. One day she had a test the next day and I sent her some encouragement on hoping that she did well on her exam.

This week that I had made the commitment to blog about this Monday and to share it to one of my friends whom I thought that this video corresponded best to. This girl is one of my really good friends. I'm not going to say her name but I hope that this video gives her encouragement for this month. I have lost touch with her ever since coming to college, and I also hope that we will starting talking once again. I miss her. 
Monday, we watched the video about Bethany Hamilton. Little did I know that "Soul Surfer" was based off of her true story. She had her arm bitten off (is that correct grammar?) by a shark while she was surfing one day. She talks about her struggles with understanding why this happened to her and why God "chose" her to have this done to her. This lady has to be the strongest person I know because she put her faith in God and accepted her fate. She even starting surfing again! Of course this had to be a struggle for her because she had only one arm, but she was determined not to let this one unfortunate moment in her life to keep her from her passion, surfing. She has accomplished so much in her life all because she didn't let life get her down. She just put her faith in God. Sometimes we may not understand why God does what he does, but he always has a purpose for it. We need to always look at the positive side of life, and not at the negative. This is so much easier said than done, but we should always strive to do so.

This is a story out of the 9th chapter of John. It explains how if we do put our faith in God, he can heal us in so many ways, other than just physical.

As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" "Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him. As long as it is day, we must do the works of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work. While I am in the world, I am the light of the world."

After saying this, he spit on the ground, made some mud with the saliva, and put it on the man's eyes. "Go," he told him, "wash in the Pool of Siloam." So the man went and washed, and came home seeing.

His neighbors and those who had formerly seen him begging asked, "Isn't this the same man who used to sit and beg?" Some claimed that he was.

Others said, "No, he only looks like him."

But he himself insisted, "I am the man."

"How then were your eyes opened?" they asked.

He replied, "The man they call Jesus made some mud and put it on my eyes. He told me to go to Siloam and wash. So I went and washed, and then I could see."

"Where is this man?" they asked him.

"I don't know," he said.

The man was then taken before a council of religious leaders where they questioned him about his healing. However, because they could not accept his testimony that his healing was of God and that Jesus was from God, they threw the man out of the synagogue.

Jesus heard that they had thrown him out, and when he found him, he said, "Do you believe in the Son of Man?"

"Who is he, sir?" the man asked. "Tell me so that I may believe in him."

Jesus said, "You have now seen him; in fact, he is the one speaking with you."

Then the man said, "Lord, I believe," and he worshiped him.

John 9:1-12, 35-41



I think I may go watch some Soul Surfer now.
Have a great rest of the week!

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

simple movie love.

Tonight me and the best friend went to see this movie.
I absolutely LOVED it! Yeah, it was the cheesy romance type of movie but I love those types, along with the gory and action filled ones. They are awesome in their own little ways.

But back to the movie tonight.
The movie began with these two people Jamie (played by Mila Kunis) and Dylan (played by Justin Timberlake) who were dumped by others and filled with bad emotions about relationships. Jamie and Dylan meet each other when Jamie talks Dylan into moving to New York for a job. Their friendship takes off from there. They confide in each other about everything going wrong in their life and find out that they have been hurt and "emotionally damaged" by other people. They just want the friendship that had the benefits along with it but no emotions. Of course that can only work for so long. Jamie tells Dylan that she wanted that type of relationship that was like a fairytale where the guy would run to prevent her from doing something and would pour his heart out to her in front of a bunch of people. Of course Dylan is too scared for things to get intimate between them, so when he takes Jamie to meet his family, he realizes that he doesn't want to be friends with benefits anymore and says those hurtful things to Jamie. She hears this and runs away. When they see each other again they have that big fight and show each other that they do care about the other but don't want to show it. Once Dylan realizes that he does want to have a real relationship with Jamie, he has messed up so he provides her with the fairytale that she always wanted. 

I love watching these movies, even though you can pretty much guess what's going to happen next. It makes you dream that this is the type of relationship that you want. To have that prince charming to come and "sweep you off your feet" is something I have always wanted. Of course this only happens in movies. But I do dream that one day there will be a guy that will love me for me and not take advantage of me. For now though, I will just enjoy life and I know that one guy will come one day.

But that's enough of me ranting about movie love. Goodnight :).